A little thing to think about...

When you look at people next to you, be it your colleagues, or anybody who stand next to you in the lift ,smelly or not, or the pretty girl who is picking up her nose in the car, or the tukang ambik sampah, anybody lah, do you stop and wonder what is actually going on in their life.. Usually we always want to know artisla princesses la, tukang bola sepak la, menteri la, but those are famous people.. how about people like us? the ordinary somebody..

Usually kan, for me, im more toward materialistic thinking, or outside of the real person itself.. "wah she is using the new mono""wahhhh where you bought the shoes , cantekkkkkk""do you thing its ori? i dont think so eh...it cos more than 10k , so why she is using slipper then?" you know, that kind of thinking...yang always make men scratch their head in disbelieving..

Maybe its the environment of my workplace which make me that way..not in the bad way i mean...its just that when you see people so banyak in your life, you tend to take only the outer layer of the person and leave the inside only when you let your guard down. Like us, i dont think we  have time to pause a second and look into the customers eyes trying to imagine what life he is having.. ahhhh! by the way, i did tried once to pause and look but unfortunately it took a wrong turn and the customer slowly backing up from me, he thought i want to flirt with him!!! if i stared into his eyes a second longer i swear he'd ran straight to police station and lodge a report on me..!

But how about those who are close with you? not close as in couple where you can recognize whis sweat from meters away, but close as in friend. Do you ever stopped to wonder hows actually the life or you take it all at the face value from whatever they told you? or you just assume?

This evening i got to know a story.. from my dear friend which all this while i ASSUMED that everything is ok with his life. Then the story unfolded tonite. He is really good at controlling the emotion and he is a good man indeed. I asked him straight away why the tooootttt he took three years before he told me this.. he said he need to see and understand me first for him to let his guard down, due to some sensitive issue.. haiyo mannn... you know how open i am ..but my respect heighten with the explanation, it shows that he thinks before he do thing. And with each explanation, i wonder how he can make it... i hope the situation improve for you my dear friend, like you always told me, there must be a reason God put us in this place and in the situation...

So for me, tonite did teach me something .. what you see might not be what you get .. Dont assumed anything cos when you assumed, the next words which come out from your mouth might hurt the feeling of your friend ..

                                      xoxo....